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LOT's of advice!

Sat Feb 6, 2010, 10:55 PM
A long time ago I made a journal with just some inspirational and thoughtful things in it. But now that I have so many more watchers, I just though perhaps it'd be more appreciated now.

I don't think I've ever heard a song with lyrics so true. Here are the lyrics:

Wear sunscreen. If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis or reliable then my own meandering experience. I will dispense this advice....now.

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Oh, nevermind, you won't understand the power and beauty of your youth until they've faded, but trust me in 20 years, you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked. You are not as fat as you imagine.

Don't worry about the future, or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum.

The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind: the kind that blindsides you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.

Do one thing every day that scares you.

Sing.

Don't be reckless with other people's hearts; don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.

Floss.

Don't waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long, and in the end, it's only with yourself.

Remember compliments you receive; forget the insults. (If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.)

Keep your old love letters; throw away your old bank statements.

Stretch.

Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives; some of the most interesting 40 year olds I know still don't.

Get plenty of Calcium. Be kind to your knees -- you'll miss them when they're gone.

Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll divorce at 40; maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary.

Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself, either. Your choices are half chance, so are everybody else's.

Enjoy your body: use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it or what other people think of it; it's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.

Dance... even if you have no where to do it but in your own living room.

Read the directions (even if you don't follow them).

Do not read beauty magazines; they will only make you feel ugly.

Get to know your parents; you never know when they'll be gone for good.

Be nice to your siblings: they're your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.

Understand that friends come and go, but what a precious few should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps and geography and lifestyle, because the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young.

Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard.

Live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft.

Travel.

Accept certain inalienable truths: prices will rise, politicians will philander, you too will get old; and when you do, you'll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble, and children respected their elders.

Respect your elders.

Don't expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund, maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse, but you never know when either one might run out.

Don't mess too much with your hair or by the time you are 40, it will look 85.

Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia; dispensing it is a way of wishing the past from the disposal--wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts, and recycling it for more than it's worth.

But trust me, I'm the sunscreen.

The song is called "Everybody is Free" by Quindon Tarver

Have you ever wondered which hurts the most?
Saying something and wishing you hadn't? Or saying nothing and wishing you had?

I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them.

If you do, they might break your heart... if you don't, you might break theirs.

Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person?

Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't.
You can't tell your heart what to do. It does it on its own when you least suspect it, or even when you don't want it to.

Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had, but that other person was too afraid to let you?

Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all.

Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle?

We tell lies when we are afraid... afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us.

But every time we tell a lie, the thing we fear grows stronger.

Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump.

Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have done, or could have had.

What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye?

What would you do if every time you wanted someone they would never be there?

What would you do if your best friend died tomorrow and you never got to tell them how you felt? (even if it is that you don't care anymore)

What would you do if you loved someone more than ever and you couldn't have them? (When you can answer this, tell me the answer.)

What would you do if you never got the chance to say I am friends with all of my family and they know I love them?

People live, but people die. I want to tell you that you are a friend.

If you died tomorrow (God Forbid) you would be in my heart.
Would I be in yours?

You might be best friends one year, pretty good friends the next year, don't talk that often the next, and don't want to talk at all the year after that.

So, I just wanted to say, even if I never talk to you again in my life, you are special to me and you have made a difference in my life,

I look up to you, respect you, truly cherish you, most of all I CARE about friend.

Send this to all your friends, no matter how often you talk, or how close you are

Let old friends know you haven't forgotten them, and tell new friends you never will.

Remember, everyone needs a friend someday you might feel like you have NO FRIENDS at all, just remember this journal and take comfort in knowing somebody out there cares about you and always will.

I care about YOU!!



There we go, kiddies. =]

  • Mood: Longing
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  • Interests: Art, anime and music.
  • Favourite movie: One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Fight Club, The Matrix, Forrest Gump, V for Vendetta
  • Favourite band or musician: The Beatles, Led Zeppelin, Eminem, Queen, Radiohead, Metallica, KISS, Pearl Jam, Nirvana
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  • Shell of choice: Bullet Shells <3
  • Wallpaper of choice: Usually an anime one.
  • Skin of choice: My own. <3
  • Favourite game: World of Warcraft, F.E.A.R., Project Zero, Metal Gear Solid
  • Favourite gaming platform: I enjoy my Playstations.
  • Favourite cartoon character: Grimmjow, Itachi, Light, Zero, Haruhi Suzumiya, Kakashi, Asuka, Kiba, Hitsugaya, Urahara
  • Personal Quote: Cheese… milk's leap toward immortality.
  • Tools of the Trade: Whatever I have at hand.

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F.A.Q.

Who are you?
My name is Elinor.

Are you a weeaboo?
I don't believe I am. I am learning Japanese in school at the moment and draw animu... but I wish I'd chosen German instead (learnt it for a few years but it's escaped me now) and I draw more than just animu (very few are even fan art)... and to stress, I'm not a furry either.

Are you gay/lesbian/bi?
My belief was that if I end up liking a girl, I end up liking a girl. I'm not against that thought at all. I feel attracted to one currently, in fact...

Are you lying about your age? (Are you really 16?)
No. I'm 16, why do you think I'm older/younger?

Do you have an ED article?
I don't know.

Are you an attention whore?
Attention makes me feel like I have a value. But if you don't give me it, it's not like I'm gonna go shoot myself or something. You wouldn't even see a journal about it these days.

Are you an Otaku? Do you collect insane amounts of Japanese merchandise?
I dunno. Am I? I cosplayed once... I only own 3 animu box sets, three figurines and five volumes of random manga. Joy. Oh, and I only visit 4chan once year.

Do you still think you're a good artist?
I gotta say, I hope so.

Are you emo?
Lol.

Why did you join dA?
Take a wild guess.

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Comments


:iconadeleane:
thanks for the fav

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:iconzumboprime:
Thanks for the :+fav:!

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:icondarigaazthenewflame:
LOL love the web cam and just popped by to say hi enjoying yer work keep it up

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:iconargent-ookami:
Thank you very much! This really means a lot to me. Thanks. :hug: :)

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:icondarigaazthenewflame:
good to hear also awesome advice dog :thumbsup:

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"Laziness is the will of the procrastinator and Pride is the best motivator." - Roland Rivera aka Ma brother from another mother

"The world is rotting..." Kira - (Deathnote)

"It's only illegal if you get caught" Dally (The Outsiders)

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